So recently we've been doing a lot of "single this", "single that" articles and why its great being single etc. So to turn the tide a bit we're going to take a look at the different types of people we fall in love with over the course of our loving lives....and we don't mean your mammy ;)
1. The one who won't love you back
No matter what you try this will end in heartbreak. When you finally break up people will tell you everything will be OK and that it couldn't have been that serious because they spotted your former partner out last weekend and they never seemed happier. But they don't understand what a massive emotional investment you have made and that it could be a long time before you get back on that horse again.
2. The one you follow
Career, college, another country. Whichever it is at some stage you are going to follow someone somewhere or someone will follow you. It shows that no relationship is completely even and that sacrifices have to be made. This isn't a break up related article though so the negative connotations from this aren't being investigated. It doesn't make you any less of a person to follow someone, in fact it shows you as a kind, caring and trusting individual that believes in something good.
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3. The one you stop loving for no reason.
It happens. You may not be able to put your finger on it for a long long time but they love just one day packed up and jumped ship. Explaining this one is probably the most heart breaking for the other person involved because they will want an explanation and even the over used "it's not you, it's me" isn't enough. But it does have legs, people just hate it because there's no closure involved. You're not likely to find the answer either until you get to know yourself again or until you experience what was missing with someone new.
4. The one who has no self love
It's like falling in love with a stone, no blood, so to speak or emotion from them. Its different to the first point of someone who won't love you back though in that they just don't feel anything for you. The one with no self love doesn't feel anything for anyone shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. Although it could be a case that you've fallen in love with them from a distance and their whole moodiness and "goth like" actions were what sparked your interest in the first place. Just stay away...at east until you see them smile!
5. The person who proves you wrong
You said you'd never fall in love again. You're too busy or you're just out of a long term relationship then BOOM. This person comes along to change you perception of what love is. They have the positive side to all the negatives in this article. They love themselves, and not in a vain way. They make you feel like a better person and see all the good in you. Even better the see all your flaws and they understand every one of them.
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